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The
following document is for
colleagues, clergy, clients, students, and others who may be interested on why I
use Theophostic Prayer Ministry (TPM) in my Christian counseling practice.
I have been incorporating
Theophostic
Prayer Ministry (TPM) as part of my overall my Christian counseling approach
since 2001.
Theophostic Prayer Ministry (Theo=
Greek for “God,” Phos = “light”) was developed by Dr. Ed Smith in 1996 in
his pastoral counseling work with traumatized individuals. You can visit
his website at
theophostic.com for more information on
TPM. I have no
personal or professional affiliation with Dr. Ed Smith or the TPM organization,
and the comments and statements below are my own.
My Training in TPM
I first heard about TPM from a highly respected friend and colleague of mine, in
about the year 2000, who described the approach as very effective and suggested
that I receive the training. TPM seemed to present, in a systematized way,
what I was already attempting to do in my practice, that is, helping my patients
experience Jesus' healing presence in the context of their distress. After receiving my basic TPM training in
December 2001, presented by psychiatrist Dr. Karl Lehman in Chicago, I participated in a 4-day apprenticeship training by Dr. Smith at the Theophostic headquarters in
Campbellsville, Kentucky August 2002. During my apprenticeship, I had the
opportunity to observe Ed Smith provide TPM to about 10 volunteers,
over about 20 hours or so, with about 30
other professional therapists and lay counseling ministers from across the
United States. After having practiced what I learned and developing more
experience and confidence in TPM, I led a basic TPM
training seminar in December 2004 for 40 participants, which included
clergy, clinicians, and lay ministers
here in the Rockford, Illinois area.
A Brief Description of TPM
TPM focuses on invoking God's help in exposing and expelling the false belief
system ("lies") assumed to be at the root of emotional distress, such
as depressive and anxiety disorders, and maladaptive
behaviors such as eating disorders and various addictions. The TPM minister is trained to pray aloud during
the session according to very clear and specific
TPM guidelines. During a TPM
session, the TPM minister prays aloud to Jesus and and interacts with the client
at the same time by asking
questions (such as "What are you experiencing now?"). The
presence of Jesus is always assumed, and a three way interaction takes place
between the facilitator, the person receiving ministry, and the Lord Jesus. Specifically, the TPM minister
asks Jesus to:
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Help the
hurting person describe the thoughts and feelings he or she experiences when
triggered by adverse events;
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Show the
person the "source and origin" of these distressing feelings, which is typically
an unpleasant memory from childhood;
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Show the
person any "lies" presumed to be imbedded in such a memory, such as "I am
worthless," "I am rejected," or "I am dirty."
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Bring truth
and light to this memory, at the very height of the emotional distress
associated with the lie. Typically, the client then reports a profound experience with Jesus Christ,
in which Jesus communicates -- through a visual image, a word-picture, a voice, or
some other experience -- a truth that the client had never realized before in a
personalized, healing way.
Working
through obstacles.
If the process
gets "stuck," as it often does, the TPM minister is trained to respond appropriately. For example,
if the person reports experiencing nothing, then the TPM minister might ask Jesus to
show the person why that might be. Often, the person might then report feeling
resentment towards someone who has recently hurt them, or guilt for a recent
wrongdoing. If so, then the TPM minister might ask, with the person's consent,
for Jesus to take the resentment or guilt upon Himself. After the person reports
the guilt or resentment lifted, the TPM process can move forward towards getting
the person free of any lies contributing to their emotional distress.
Experiential
emphasis. The emphasis
of TPM is on experiential truth, that is, a genuine experience of Jesus'
love, acceptance, and forgiveness during the TPM session, rather than a mere mental
awareness of truth. TPM views "head knowledge" as important but not always
sufficient in healing emotional wounds. The person is not considered free of the lie until
he or she experiences a pleasant calmness in the painful memory as a result of
a genuine encounter with Jesus Christ. The typical TPM session takes about 1-3 hours.
An
Example of TPM From My Practice
A brief example of the TPM process
can be helpful in understanding the process. Here is an actual example of TPM in
action, from my own practice:
Sally (not her real
name) came to me with a a history of bulimia (binging and purging food), depression,
and self-mutilation. After an initial evaluation, Sally, a church-going
Christian, was able to see that her bulimia and cutting herself were unhealthy
ways of escaping deep and unexpressed emotional pain. After introducing TPM to
Sally, and giving her some literature on how it works, she expressed a
willingness to try it. In her first TPM session, I asked her to close her
eyes and describe the emotional distress she experienced right before her last
cutting episode. She said "depressed . . . lonely . . . hopeless." With
her eyes still closed, I asked, with Sally's permission, for Jesus to show her
the real source and origin of her pain. Sally then reported an episode of verbal
abuse by her older sister when Sally was 7 years old. Apparently, Sally was left
alone with her sister, who had problems with anger. As I asked God to show her the lie
imbedded in the memory, Sally cried out "I'm worthless!" I asked her
then to rate the intensity to which she felt that this belief was true on scale
of 0-10, with 10 being the highest. She cried out "10!" At that moment I asked Jesus to
communicate to Sally whatever He wanted her to know in this memory, and in a way
that would free Sally of the lie imbedded in this memory. Instantly Sally was calm and had a
serene facial expression. When I asked her what she was now experiencing, Sally
she said a voice was saying to her: "You're My treasure." However, I then
noticed, as her eyes were still closed, that she looked puzzled and a bit
distressed again. So I asked her what she was now expeirencing. Sally responded:
"I'm now thinking that maybe I'm just talking to myself. Maybe I'm making this
up." So I asked her to simply experience that thought, and then to
evaluate it, as I prayed that God would help her experience truth. Suddenly, her
serene facial expression returned, and Sally smiled, saying, "No, this voice is
too familiar. I'm not making this up. I've heard the voice before. It's
definitely not me; this is Jesus!" By the time we closed the session, the belief
"I'm worthless" was rated at a "0." After this session, I showed Sally the Bible
passage John 10:27 ("My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow
Me"), and asked her to read and meditate on it. This scripture helped her have
scriptural confirmation of her experience. After a few more sessions, in which I
monitored her symptoms closely, Sally no longer met the criteria for
bulimia. After a few more sessions, she no longer met the criteria for
depression. However, as part of relapse prevention and aftercare, she agreed to
continue to see me every 6-12 weeks for in order for me to monitor her progress
and provide ongoing support. That was over a year ago and the last I evaluated
her (July 11, 2006), she was still free from symptoms of bulimia and depression and pursuing a career in the health field.
I have applied TPM to well over 100 clients since 2001, and I could
report many stories similar to Sally's. Clients with
suicidal depression, panic attacks, eating disorders, self-mutilation behaviors, sexual
addictions, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and severe anger problems
consistently show improvement after 1-3 TPM sessions and are often discharged
completely free of the symptoms they came in with. Unfortunately,
I have been unable to follow up with all my clients as well as Sally, because of
many patients' understandable reluctance to return to counseling and pay a fee, simply to
be evaluated and tell me how well they
are doing.
Clinical Observations
My use of TPM in my clinical practice almost daily since 2001 has been a learning
adventure. I believe that I am a much more effective therapist than I was back
then, and I have
grown professionally and personally from applying TPM to my practice. Here are
some things I have learned about TPM -- some clinical observations about my own
experience
-- that may be
helpful for readers, especially other clinicians.
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TPM experience enhances
TPM skill. Immediately after my training, as I
followed the TPM guidelines exactly as I was trained, I observed that in most
cases, at least 70%, there was a significant breakthrough in the very first
90-minute TPM session. By significant breakthrough, I mean that the client would
report feeling a pleasant calm as a result of experiencing Jesus' presence in
their emotional distress. As I become more experienced and skilled in TPM, I would estimate that my application of TPM
now results in a
breakthrough in at least 90% of TPM cases in the first session. For the few
remaining TPM cases, a breakthrough often results during the second or third session.
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When TPM does not work,
I have never found it to be due to a failure in the procedure itself. In the rare cases that I can recall
where TPM had not resulted in improvement, there were plain explanations for
this. For example, one former client told me that he was not being truthful with
me during a TPM session, fearing my
reaction to a sexual sin he felt deep guilt for during the session. His not
sharing with me his feeling of guilt (he later told me that his guilt and shame
was for having had sex with a prostitute) obstructed the process. After he had
disclosed this to me, and we asked Jesus to take his guilt on Himself, his next TPM
session resulted in a significant breakthrough. In the other two cases I am
thinking of, there were unresolved relational dynamics going on between me
and the person receiving TPM, which would
have complicated any counseling intervention I offered.
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TPM is cost-effective.
TPM works far more quickly than
any form of counseling I have been trained in, and
achieves better and more lasting results that I
have observed through other forms of therapy. TPM greatly decreases the number of sessions required
to meet clients' counseling goals. Hence, TPM is very cost effective, saving the
client a lot of time and money.
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TPM is very
helpful in marital therapy. TPM is very useful
for marital problems in my Christian counseling practice. As any marital
therapist will tell you, the greatest obstacle to resolving marital problems is
when each partner sees the other person as
needing to be "fixed." TPM, which keep the focus on each partner's relationship
with God as the primary issue, makes the relationship with the marital partner secondary
to their personal issues. Typically, I meet with each partner individually
for TPM before each marital session. If one partner is unwilling to do TPM, I
find that the marriage improves anyway, because the spouse experiencing more love, joy, and
peace as a result of TPM is not getting as triggered by the other's behavior.
Often, when one spouse sees how well the other is doing after TPM, he or she wants to receive TPM as well.
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TPM can be
useful when used selectively with
children. I have used TPM with
children sparingly yet very successfully, and, of course, never without parents'
consent and with the child's understanding and permission. For example, a 7 year old boy who would
not eat solid food after a choking trauma started eating sandwiches, pizza, and
all the food he used to eat after a 20-minute TPM session; the boy reported
during the session that "Jesus told me to go ahead and eat and not be afraid
because He won't let anything happen to me."
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TPM enhances
Christian spiritual growth and maturity. TPM typically
brings about deep
and profound changes in my clients’ spiritual lives, as people "grow in the
grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ" (2 Peter 3:18). Before TPM, my clients
would often describe their Christian faith in dry, abstract terms. If they
are able to describe a genuine encounter with God -- where they have actually experienced
His presence in a meaningful way -- it might have been once or twice in the past, such
as during their conversion experience years ago or at a church retreat in their
adolescence. After TPM, however, clients can often describe a much more deep and
meaningful personal relationship with Jesus. After TPM, there is often a
dramatic increase in weekly church attendance, devotional time, and
conversational prayer with Jesus.
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TPM greatly reduces
negative affect. Although I have
not done a formal scientific study, I often observe that clients'
depression, anxiety, and anger scores on a psychological instrument (QPASS; see
QPASSlive.com) drop from clinical to sub-clinical levels after a breakthrough,
which takes place in 1-3 sessions.
In my attempts to
follow-up with my clients -- by sending QPASS in the mail and ask that it be
returned completed -- these drops in depression, anxiety, and anger scores are
often consistent 3-6 months later.
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TPM and research. TPM is just
beginning to get the notice of the academic community, and therefore scientific
research on TPM is just in the early stages. There is certainly no lack of
positive testimonials and anecdotal evidence of TPM's effectiveness. I am
excited about TPM's potential for bringing about a major change in our field. As
Elliot Miller writes: "If research one day could establish that TPM recipients
have recovered from such profound conditions without relapse for, say, 15 years
or more, then TPM would land a place on the therapeutic map and provoke a
literal revolution in psychology" (Chritian Research Journal, v9, no. 3, 2006,
p. 36). There is currently some scientific
research (see theophostic.com) that is supportive of TPM, but much more research
is needed before TPM is more widely recognized by the academic community. There
is no research to date I know of that is unsupportive of the effectiveness of
TPM or that suggests TPM is harmful in any way. Based on my experience in my
private practice, I confidently predict that future studies will show TPM highly
effective for a wide variety of psychological disorders, and
encourage my students and colleagues to receive training in TPM. I also
recommend that researchers somehow make sure that the TPM practioners in their
studies are doing TPM as they are trained when they study the effects of TPM.
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Ethical use of TPM.
Based on my positive experience with TPM, and the initial research findings, I
personally believe it is my ethical responsibility to introduce this option to clients whom
I assess as appropriate to receive TPM. For me, denying TPM to my clients
-- until TPM is less "controversial" and until more research substantiates what I
have already witnessed -- would morally
and ethically equivalent to a researcher-physician withholding a highly effective medicine
from his patients until all the medical community and scientific journals caught up with what he already
knew to be true. Hence, I introduce TPM to my clients as early as possible in the therapy,
but never before a good rapport is established, clear treatment
goals have been set, and the client is willing to become educated on TPM. Since
many of my clients are Christian and often include "getting closer to God" and
"experiencing more love, joy, and peace instead of depression, anxiety, and
anger" as treatment goals, I introduce them to TPM and
provide information and websites to visit to help them make
an informed and educated decision on TPM.
If clients have any questions or concerns about the TPM approach, I answer these
concerns before we begin. If, for any reason, the client decides not to try the TPM approach, then I proceed with traditional psychotherapy.
It is very important to note that TPM should be considered one component of an overall
Christian counseling approach, and never the only service offered by a
professional Christian counselor. Indeed, in addition to TPM, the Christian
psychotherapist should also provide psychoeducational support as well as ongoing
assessment and intervention for psychopathology and the therapeutic relationship
with the client, as well as the
interpersonal dynamics with others, such as his or her spouse and other family
members.
Six
Words
of Caution
TPM, of course, is not a cure-all and we must clearly understand and communicate its limitations. Here are six
things I have learned through experience with TPM, that may be of benefit to
others:
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TPM is no substitute for Christian discipleship and basic disciplines.
As Dr. Smith has warned, TPM is no replacement for the basics in Christianity
such as discipleship, fellowship, and the Christian disciplines. Indeed, many of
my clients
need to maintain a sense of God's presence after their TPM sessions in their
everyday lives, and thereby maintaining the love, joy, and peace they experienced
in TPM sessions. In my own practice, I strongly encourage my clients to seek
ongoing discipleship and mentorship, the daily practice of basic Christian
disciplines, and ongoing fellowship with other Christians.
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Multiple
traumas often require multiple TPM sessions. Clients with more intense and prolonged negative life experiences
often need more than several TPM sessions. Victims of multiple
episodes of childhood sexual abuse need as many TPM sessions as needed to help them get
them free from the effects of their "lies," memory by memory. Fore example, at
the time of this writing, I have provided about a dozen TPM sessions to a
middle-aged woman in which as many childhood traumas we processed and
successfully resolved in Jesus' presence. Just last night, we processed and
resolved what was presented as a repressed memory of incest by her father,
which, according to the client, occurred shortly after a date-rape in her
adolescence. The feelings related to this memory were apparently triggered by
her boyfriend's anger towards her, and compounded her distress to the point of
severe suicidal ideation when she arrived at my office. It was by far the most
painful experience we had processed through TPM, and yet she walked out of the
office last night experiencing profound calmness and a strong bond with Jesus,
whom she says "cleansed me of all the dirtiness I felt," and made her feel
worthy by "having me sit next to Him, right by His own throne." (Note: To help
her see how scripture harmonized with this experience, I showed her Ephesians
2:6, which she, as a "baby Christian," had never read before, and asked her to
meditate on it and other verses when she got home).
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Personality-disordered clients need more than TPM. Although TPM can bring about the
immediate fruit of the Spirit (love, joy, and peace; see Galatians 5:22),
changes in personality and character (patience, kindness, goodness,
self-control) take time and experience. I have learned that clients with
lifelong problems with developing healthy and meaningful interpersonal
relationships -- that is, those with what we clinicians call "personality disorders"
-- need more treatment than TPM. They also need ongoing help and support as they learn and
practice more effective relationship skills, and "unlearn" lifelong habits of
unhealthy relating and emotional regulation.
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TPM has
limited effectiveness with psycho-biological disorders. TPM appears to
be effective only to the degree that a person's emotional distress is actually
based in unhealthy "lie-based" beliefs. I have personally
found TPM to have limited effectiveness with Obsessive Compulsive
Disorder (OCD), Bipolar Disorder, and to some extent, ADHD. This observation, of course,
is highly consistent with the prevailing scientific view that biology plays a larger role in these disorders
than other psychological disorders. Moreover, Dr. Ed Smith has been
careful to point out that TPM has limited effectiveness for true
biologically-based disorders.
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TPM is not for
everyone. I have learned that it can be unwise to introduce TPM as
an option too early in treatment, especially for clients who are not ready for a
radical or controversial spiritual intervention. For some clients, it is a huge step just to come into a
counselor's office and open themselves up to someone. TPM, we must remember, can sound very
strange and threatening to some people, and therefore can easily scare some hurting
people who could benefit from traditional counseling right out of the office.
Moreover, it is crucial to have a good rapport with a client before
introducing TPM, and to assess the client's comfort level in feeling
safe in the process of disclosing his or her thoughts and feelings and memories.
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TPM training is no guarantee of competence.
Just
about anybody can get trained in TPM and TPM has no formal credentialing
process. A certificate of completion is provided for anyone who has attended the
basic training and merely reports having read the 345-page manual. Not
even passing a simple test is required. I appreciate the fact that Dr. Smith
strongly encourages TPM
ministers to seek accountability from their church leaders and to get clinical
supervision by professional clinical counselors (see page 26 of the TPM Manual,
2005). Nonetheless, TPM supervision and clinical training are not required.
Although the basic and advanced training does a good job of describing
psychological processes in laymen's terms, TPM ministers are not required to
have any knowledge of psychological disorders or counseling training.
Therefore, until TPM has a formal credentialing and supervision process that
I would deem acceptable, there is a considerable risk for the following
problems: a) misapplication of the TPM procedure, b) basic counseling ethics
being unobserved, c) psychological processes being misunderstood, d) psychiatric
disorders being undetected or mistreated, and e) psychologically unhealthy
people placed in a helper role. Accordingly, many people
seeking to receive TPM may want to seek someone with a proven degree of professionalism,
clinical experience, education, credentialing, biblical knowledge, spiritual
maturity, in addition to having basic TPM skill level and
experience.
My Response to TPM as a Christian
As I describe in my website, I believe that
Christian counseling worthy of that name
is
Scripture-based,
Christ-centered, and
Spirit-led.
For the most part, my own personal theology and psychological
perspectives harmonize quite well with those expressed at the
TPM website and in the latest TPM manual
(2005, New Creation Publishing).
TPM is Scripture-Based
According to the
highly respected Christian
Research Institute (CRI): "After an
exhaustive evaluation, CRI detects nothing unbiblical about the core theory and
practice of Theophostic Prayer Ministry (TPM)" (see the Christian Research Journal,
2006, v. 29, No. 2 ). I heartily agree.
I especially appreciate the emphasis that TPM
places upon experiential knowledge instead of cognitive knowledge; that is,
heart-knowledge instead of head knowledge. Both experiential knowledge and head
knowledge are important, but experiential knowledge -- to know God in our hearts, which records actual
experience, not data -- is a more Biblical path to truth that seeking head
knowledge only. (see Proverbs 3:4, 5). The latter breeds cold and dry intellectualism, the
disease of the Pharisees. Moreover, the overly rational worldview of Reformation
theology and of the Enlightment era, as important as it was for those times, has
contributed to today's ignorance of the profound role of
the human heart and soul in understanding human nature and our heart-to-heart
relationship with God. The heart, not the head, is more central to understanding
man, according to a Biblical worldview. (Just check your Bible concordance for how many times
the word "heart" is mentioned in the Bible). Of course, the emphasis on
rationalism has created a hunger for mystical experience that can lead people to
New Age practices and the postmodern rejection of logic and reason. Hence, the TPM
movement is getting us back to a more balanced scriptural worldview that
emphasizes experiential truth without tossing out scripture and logical thinking.
TPM is Christ-Centered
I do not know what could be
more Christ-centered than TPM. In TPM, Jesus Christ, not the counselor, is
acknowledged as the healer. Indeed, TPM sessions are highly structured around
the continued practice of Jesus' presence during the session. (Technically
speaking, Jesus is seated at the right hand of the Father, and it is the Holy
Spirit we are interacting with in TPM sessions. However, where the Holy Spirit
is, Jesus and our Father-God are present.)
TPM is Spirit-Led
Of course, there is no chapter in the Bible that spells out the TPM procedure,
verse by verse. However, as Dallas Willard writes in his book Hearing God
(1999; Downers Grove, IL: InterVarisity Press), "Our reverence for and faith in
the Bible must not be allowed to blind us to the need for divine instructions
within the principles of the Bible yet beyond the details of what it
explicitly says" (p. 59). In other words, reading the Bible without the Holy
Spirit is like telling God what to do, using His Word to command and hence
confine Him to our little boxes. It is scripturally consistent to actually expect
the Holy Spirit to use new forms and vehicles for conveying the unchanging
Gospel truth. Indeed, we can expect the Holy Spirit advance God's kingdom and
bring the healing Word of God to the brokenness in His people (Psalm 147:3) in
our particular day and age, consistent with true and
sound psychological knowledge that we have learned in the 20th century. Although neither our
psychological methods nor TPM itself is specifically described in the Bible, let us remember that the Bible
is not a psychology textbook, but "a lamp unto our feet and a light to our path"
(Psalm 119:105). Moreover, as we see in the book of Acts, the Holy Spirit works
in 100% harmony with the written Word of God in applying its truth to particular
times, cultures, circumstances, and even to particular (or perhaps more
accurately, peculiar) personalities.
Seven Ways that TPM Harmonizes With Bible
There are at least seven ways
that I see in which TPM clearly
harmonizes with the Bible:
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The gospel of John.
In John 1:4, it is written that "The light shines in the darkness, and the
darkness has not overcome it." In Jesus' encounters in the book of John with
Nathaniel, Nicodemus, the woman at the well, and with Peter, He spoke truth into
their hearts in very personal and unique ways, matching their unique
personalities and life experiences. This is exactly what I observe in my clients
during TPM sessions.
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The
Way of the Psalms.
The way of emotional healing prescribed in the Davidic psalms involves the full
expression of our dark emotions -- despair, fear, even our anger -- in
God's presence. This is exactly what happens in TPM.
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Paul's conversion on
the road to Damascus (Acts 9). Although there are differences, there are
also remarkable similarities between TPM and Paul's conversion on the road to
Damascus as described in Acts 9. For example, we read that Paul (then Saul) was
transformed not by intellectual persuasion, or a study of scriptures, but by a
powerful experiential encounter with Jesus. Through this encounter, all the lies
Paul believed about Jesus and His followers were replaced by truth.
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The call for repentance.
Anger and guilt are emotions that have to do with sin. Anger (and
resentment) has to do with the sin of others against us; guilt has to do with
our own sin. The Bible calls us to repent (that is be changed by being renewed;
Matthew 4:17; Romans 12:2), confess our guilt (Psalm 51; 1 Jn 1:9), and to
forgive, from our hearts (Mat 18:35) those who have offended us. In TPM,
we find that guilt is replaced by peace of mind, as Jesus takes the guilt of the
client upon Himself. In TPM, we also find that hate is replaced by empathy and
love for the offender, as Jesus takes all the anger of the client upon Himself.
Interestingly, I consistently observe that clients
report their anger and resentment identified and lifted by God before
they describe their own guilt identified and lifted. In the early days when I
first started practicing TPM, I would attempt to get the client to deal with his
or her guilt first, because I thought that was more important. But I would
always find that the client was compelled to express anger first, before guilt.
Now I know why: this orderly progression is perfectly consistent with what Jesus
said in Matthew 6: 15: "But if you do not forgive men, then your Father will not
forgive your transgressions."
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The
fruit of the Spirit described in Galatians 5:22.
In TPM, I consistently
observe that depression, anxiety, anger is replaced by the love, joy, and peace.
According to Galatians 5:22, these three emotions -- love, joy, and peace -- are
exactly what we should expect when we experience God's presence.
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The nature of the demonic (Luke 11:24-26).
If the person describes anything "demonic", the TPM minister is trained to
calmly view this as God allowing this experience to help reveal the lie. Hence,
the focus of TPM is not in casting out demons, but in getting the lie identified
and expelled. When the lie is replaced by truth, demons are no longer
experienced. This, of course, is consistent with Luke 11:24-26, in which Jesus
says that an unclean spirit, though cast out, will return to a man with seven
more evil spirits if the emptiness in the man is not filled.
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Jesus'
response to Paul's adversity.
Christian maturity
is manifested by how we respond to adversity.
TPM literature does not
describe adversity
in a Christian's life as something bad or spiritually unhealthy. (Indeed, God's
love is demonstrated in his disciplining His own children, according to
Hebrews12:5-11).On the contrary, TPM shows how God often uses adversity in our
lives to expose our lie-based thinking and consequent unhealthiness. When we are
in distress, TPM counsels us to cry out to Jesus for His truth. The TPM
view of adversity is remarkably consistent with how the apostle Paul
re-interpreted his thorn in the flesh after Jesus "showed up" and said "My grace
is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness" (2 Corinthians
12:9). The way this healing truth imparted to Paul by Jesus, after Paul cried
out to Jesus (v.8), is highly consistent with a TPM session.
Where I Disagree
with TPM Theology
A person's theology,
in my view, is his or her current mental construction of God.
Christians are people
who are growing and maturing in Christ, and whose theology modifies here and
there as we grow and mature in Christ.
This is why
Christians can still be in fellowship even when we do not agree exactly on every
theological point. Indeed, it is rare to find that two Christians agree
theologically on every issue, point by point. So it should come as no surprise
that I have a couple of theological disagreements with Dr. Smith. These
disagreements are purely academic and do not effect the way I practice TPM, and
do not reflect, in my view, flaws in the TPM procedure itself.
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First, Ed` Smith describes a
person's negative beliefs about themselves -- such as "I am worthless," "I am
bad" -- as "lies." As I will describe below, I believe that these beliefs are
actual truths reflecting who we are without Christ. These truths about who we
are without Christ can actually be awakened within us by trauma. (I'll explain below).
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Secondly, as I
understand, Dr. Smith does not believe that Christians have a sin nature,
because, in his view, we are new creatures in Christ. Even though Christians are indeed new creatures in Christ, I believe that the sin nature is still very much
present in all of us, and is part of who we are until we die. Here, I agree with
Dwight Edwards, who wrote the following:
In bestowing this gift
[the new heart] at our conversion, God doesn't remove our old heart. When we
trust God for salvation, our sinful nature is not removed, but offset. Till the
day we die there will always be a godless, proud, innately wicked part of us
that will never be improved over time. Yet within every believer there will also
be a godly, righteous, Christ-adoring inclination that can never be destroyed
(although it can be stifled by other passions" (Revolution Within, 2001,
Colorado Springs: Waterbrook Press, p. 54).
So what is the
new heart? Although
I believe, with Dr.
Smith, and celebrate with him, the fact that we who are in Christ have new
hearts, I believe that the new heart referred to in scripture is not so much a
thing we have as a thing which is in the process of developing through the
indwelling of Christ and the Holy Spirit. What God declares to be true about us
-- that we have new hearts -- is from His eternal perspective, and is not yet
true in the actuality of our day-to-day existence. I believe that we are not yet
totally dead to the sin dwelling in us, but are going through the process
called sanctification.
Dr. Smith describes
lies as beliefs that are a) foreign injections into
the mind by Satan or by other people (such as verbal abuse), or b) immature, invalid intellectual constructions
that a person makes in childhood in response to a trauma or negative experience.
Dr. Smith's descriptions of these beliefs is highly consistent with Dr. Aaron Beck's
cognitive therapy approach, which describes the role of negative self-schemas
("such as the belief "I am worthless") in the development of psychological
disorders such as depression and anxiety disorders.
In my view, Ed Smith's current
theology -- and we are all in a growth process when it comes
to Christian theology,
myself included -- does not reflect a robust doctrine of original sin,
or, what theologian Wayne Grudem more accurately calls, inherited sin (Systematic
Theology, 1994, Grand Rapids: Zondervan, p. 494). The doctrine of inherited
sin, which refers to "sin that is ours because of Adam's fall" (Grudem, p. 496),
is reflected in Paul's statement "I know nothing good dwells in me, that is, in
my flesh" (Rom. 7:18). Christians, even with our new hearts, have a dark
side, because the sin nature is part of who we were at birth, and
will be a part of who we are until we die.
In contrast to a
robust doctrine of original (inherited) sin, we have victim theology,
which attributes our
wretchedness to things that happen to us,
rather than who we
are without Christ. I detect that some, but by no means not all, of Ed Smith's
current theology is still under the intoxicating influence of
victim theology, especially in the idea suggested in TPM literature that
implanted lies cause our sin and wretchedness.
In contrast to victim
theology, a robust doctrine of original/inherited sin requires a direct connection between
a) our sin and wretchedness and b) the truths of
who we are without Christ, rooted in the Fall described in Genesis 3, and
described by Paul in Romans 3:10-18.
Specifically, there are seven points that need to be trumpeted across the land
-- including every Christian counseling office -- in order for us to triumph over
victim theology.
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Emotional
distress (our wretchedness) goes back to the Fall, not our childhoods.
Our emotional distress -- our
wretchedness -- originated not in our negative childhood experiences, but
in the Fall described in Genesis 3. I believe that there is a direct link between
so-called "lies" (I am worthless, etc.) and our own sin nature.
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What
psychologists call toxic beliefs or what TPM call
"lies" are actual truths about who we are without Christ. The truth of our fallen condition is
this: independent of Christ and His finished work on the cross, each of us,
according to Romans 3:10-18, is indeed worthless, alienated, banished from Eden,
empty, dirty, and depraved, hopeless and hell-bound. Therefore, these are
actually scriptural truths about who we really are, at our core without Christ,
9and note that I emphasize without Christ) not "lies." Harsh realities, yes, but nonetheless
scriptural truths. Unless this point is emphasized, we are led to believe that
others cause our distress, when our distress is actually ours, due to our sin nature.
This is what I "victim theology."
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Human beings
are not, as victim
theology falsely assumes, divine creatures at birth. If negative beliefs about ourselves
("I am worthless", "I am dirty," etc.) were actual lies -- rather then truths of
who we are at the core of our being without Christ (according to Romans 3:10-28)-- then trauma victims,
logically, would be divine from physical birth. There would be no truth
whatsoever to Romans 3:10-28, that is, that we are all, without Christ, worthless, dirty, empty, depraved,
and alienated from God
from birth. In this sense, victim theology is -- and I cannot put it more
mildly-- heretical. Moreover, if you'd think about it, victim theology is illogical: a
"divine" person would not -- even for a
moment -- believe a lie (that is, agree, with Satan), nor, as is so often the
case, would a divine person experience so much hate for his or her offender.
Indeed, a "divine" victim of abuse would be like
Jesus, and instantly love the offender and be able to maintain fellowship
with Father-God, believing God's truths, not lies from Satan or men or the flesh,
both during and after the trauma. Therefore, although many of us are indeed victims of
the evil in this world, none of us
are divine victims. Christian counseling that teaches or even implies that
the client who was victimized by abuse is divine from birth, and is righteous
before God independent of Christ -- is not Christian counseling. Call it
something else -- such as New Age spiritual counseling -- but it would be wrong
to call it Christian counseling.
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God can use traumas to awaken us to our true inner wretchedness
and need for Christ.
Typically, our denial system keeps us asleep to the truths of Romans
3:10-18. Indeed, who among us could bear these awful truths about
who we are, at the core, without knowing, at the same time, God's grace through Christ? And who
could accept the inevitable conclusion, that we are, by nature, without Christ, destined for wrath
and eternal Hell? No one, of course, can accept and digest these realities except by God's grace and empowerment. God
is certainly at liberty to use negative life experiences and adverse events in our lives -- such as
traumas -- to jolt us awake to these soul-saving truths. In order to be saved,
we need to know our true and hopeless condition, and cry out for a Savior. Back
in the 1700s, God
used preachers such as Jonathan Edwards, who preached that famous sermon called "Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God" to help spark the First Great Awakening
in colonial America, in which many were saved and described life-changing
encounters with Christ. As the church
sanctuaries once echoed with shrieks of horror
by those who heard Jonathan Edwards and others, such as George Whitefield preach
about the sin nature and
hell and damnation, so many counseling offices today echo with
the shrieks of clients who come face-to-face with the truth of their sinful nature,
although activated from
memories of traumas and negative life events. In my view, the reason these beliefs
("I am worthless," "I am dirty," "I am alienated") are so hard to shake off
is not because they are "lies," but because they are actual truths that profoundly resonate with the sin nature of our hearts, the
very core of who we are without Christ.
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We all
--without exception -- learn how to distract ourselves from our wretchedness.
Blaise Pascal, the brilliant 17th century scientist and Christian philosopher,
described, in his book Pensees, the human condition with profound
psychological insight. He depicted human beings as creatures who learn how to
distract themselves from the wretchedness of their inner selves through amusements, addictions,
and the employment of their talents, physical attributes, and wealth. As the
prophet Isaiah wrote, "All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every
one to his own way" (Isaiah 53:6, RSV). If we take a moment to look at our traumatized clients through
biblical lenses, we will see that they are far more aware of their wretchedness
-- the awful truths of Romans 3:10-18 -- than so many of those whose talents, wealth, and amusements
can more easily distract themselves from theirs. But because so many of
our clients do not have the luxury of these distractions, they are in more
distress. Hence, they come into our offices as ripe for Christ and His light as
those colonial Americans during the First Great Awakening whose inner
wretchedness -- the awful truths of Romans 3:10-18 -- was awakened by the
preaching of Jonathan Edwards, George Whitefield, and others.
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Experiencing
our wretchedness, according to Jesus, is a good thing: "Blessed are
the wretched (the poor in spirit)." From our limited human
perspective, feeling our wretchedness connected with the awful truths of Romans
3:10-18 seems like a bad or evil thing,
to be avoided at all costs. It is certainly a horrible thing to experience,
and Satan, called the Accuser, no doubt has a starring role in our life-stories, stirring up
our wretchedness in some to the point of suicidal intensity. But what Satan means
for evil, God means for good (see Genesis 50:20), especially for His own
children (see Romans 8:28). From God's eternal perspective,
feeling the wretchedness associated with who we really are, at our core, without
Christ, is a very good thing. Why? Because it makes us desperately cry out to God in our
true state of hopelessness,
helplessness and distress.
Indeed, the reason TPM works so well, in my opinion, is that it provides the context for so many people to
quickly access their wretchedness, and, more importantly, the light of Christ in
their distress. The reason Jesus said "Blessed are the poor in spirit" (Matthew
5:2) is because only the poor in spirit pursue Him and have access to Him. As
Dwight Edwards wrote:
"the essence of faith is dependence . . .rooted in a
genuine and overwhelming sense of need. That's why the Sermon on the Mount
begins 'Blessed are the poor in spirit.' Brokenness and faith are so closely
intertwined, it's difficult to tell where one ends and the other begins" (Revolution
Within, Colorado Springs: Waterbrook Press, p. 81).
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More
good news
about our depravity and wretchedness. Of course, the good news for the
wretched is . . . Jesus! Jesus took all our sin upon Himself on the cross, rose from
the dead, sits at the right hand of the Father, and is, at this moment, ready to welcome His own
children into His kingdom. As Psalms 22 so perfectly describes-- which starts with "My God! My God!
Why have You forsaken me?" the words quotes by Jesus on the cross -- Jesus experienced all our wretchedness upon the cross.
Indeed, our
traumatized, impoverished clients are intimately familiar with the emotions of Psalms 22 verse by verse.
They are often amazed when I show them this psalm, which almost quotes their own
experience. When Jesus' light
comes into our dark hearts and souls we do
indeed become transformed into new creatures (2 Corinthians 5:17). When Jesus
comes into the receptive heart, the truths, that we are worthless, depraved,
and alienated (Romans 3), in a sense, become "lies" in the sense that
they are no longer true for us in Christ. But -- and this is
important -- they
are part of human nature and for as long as we are alive in this body
wretchedness remains because the truths of our old nature remain true, until we
die. Our daily sin attests to this fact. Remember, the apostle Paul wrote
"Wretched man that I am" (Romans 7:24) not wretched man that I
was." Every day I feel my wretchedness, but I bring it into the light
of Christ, and I experience Him, and who I am in Him. This is why Paul then
writes: "there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ" (Romans 8:1)!
In summary. In a nutshell,
without Christ,
we are all depraved wretches from birth; that includes both
traumatized victims of horrible abuse and non-traumatized people. With
Christ, we become new creatures, both the traumatized and the non-traumatized,
yet still have a sin nature.
Our wretchedness is rooted in the Fall, not in our childhoods.
None of our clients are physically born into this world innocent and divine, and anything we counselors say
or suggest to the
contrary is inconsistent with the doctrine of original sin, at the core of
orthodox Christian theology.
Suggestions
about how
practice Christian counseling without victim theology. Flushing
victim theology out of our Christian counseling offices is a good thing, but
only if it does not cause us to lose
empathy for our clients in their distress, or fail to stand in solidarity with them against the evil inflicted upon them.
Flushing out victim theology from our offices does not necessarily mean that we refuse to
allow any client to ventilate his or her feelings or to express a current need
to blame the offender for his
or her distress. For example, I invite my clients to openly express
their heart-felt belief that the offender is to blame for all their pain, if
that is what they believe, in the same way that God, through the Psalms, invites
us to express what
we genuinely feel and believe to be true about God, even if our current beliefs
are not theologically correct. Even as they express their need to blame the
offender for all their distress, we need to remember that the Holy Spirit is directing the process.
Often I have had clients wear themselves expressing anger about the offender
causing all of their problems, until they start to see that all their pain
cannot possibly be attributed to what was done to them. It can only be explained
by something deeper inside of them, their own sin nature, that the Holy Spirit
is gradually revealing to them, guiding the client towards ownership of
his or her own wretchedness-without-Christ.
Hence, in my view,
the wretchedness was the client's before, during, and after
the negative childhood experience because, according to Romans 3, we were all born
depraved wretches. A trauma or negative childhood experience can serve the purpose of
awakening us from the
sleep of denial of our sin nature and the appropriate feelings
of wretchedness associated with who we are without Christ. Some of us are more aware
of our wretchedness than others, and
yet victims of trauma are often profoundly aware of it. As our clients
experience their feelings of alienation, we let them own it and express it, yet
as they do, we point them towards the light of Christ, mends their brokenness
before us right in our offices.
So why are
some trauma victims not feeling wretched? Some trauma victims, like
others, are never aware of their wretchedness because they can distract
themselves through amusements, addictions, and all the pleasures that this world
and the flesh have to offer. Negative life events activate and make us more
profoundly aware of our fallen nature, wretchedness, and depravity. This is why
Jesus' first sermon starts out with "Blessed are the poor in spirit" (Matthew
5:3). Pity not our wretched clients any more than those who shrieked in horror
as they heard Jonathan Edwards preach. Both a trauma and a convicting sermon can
stir up the same wretchedness. Rather,
let us pity and pray for those who go through this short lifespan never discovering
the soul-saving truth of their own depravity and God's grace through Christ.
Hence, only wretches can sing from their hearts "Amazing grace, how sweet the
sound, that saved a wretch like me."
Hence, in my evaluation, TPM literature
has some remnants of "victim theology"
within it, but this flawed theology reflects, in my opinion, human error by Ed Smith,
and not a
significant flaw in the TPM procedure itself or the basic sound theology upon which it is
based. Specifically, the TPM literature suggests that a person's emotional
distress is due
to "lies" either injected into a memory by Satan or other people, or arrived at
through immature thinking. In actuality, in my view, our clients' distress is due to truths of who we are
without Christ -- worthless, alienated, powerless, dirty, depraved, etc. (see
Romans 3:10-18) due to the sin nature each of us is born with.
Traumas and negative life events awaken us to these
horrible truths about who we really are at our core, due to the Fall described in Genesis 3.
Why Does God Use TPM to Heal, if the Term "Lie" Is Not Technically Accurate?
So the following
question is naturally raised: If these negative beliefs we have about ourselves are
actually truths
about who we are without Christ, and not "lies," as TPM literature
suggests, then why does TPM work so effectively? Indeed, why would God use it, if the term "lie" is incorrect?
I believe there are three reasons:
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Our flaws
don't limit God. First of all, TPM's flawed terminology presents no
limitation on God for Him to use it asnyway. When TPM is consecrated for God's
use, and His presence is invoked, God, I believe, will use it, even with its
human flaws. God used TPM much in the same way
that your personal flaws and human limitations, as well as mine, do not limit God's use
of us as a consecrated instrument of His in ministry.
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Our clients don't
need our precise theology in their pain. Secondly,
our hurting clients do not need crystal-clear theological terms or a sermon on
original sin as they are embracing their true
feelings of worthlessness, alienation, depravity, and dirtiness that are triggered by
memories of childhood trauma. They need the
light of Christ, and that is exactly what TPM provides, even if the use of
the term "lies" is not technically correct in describing who the
client is independent of Christ.
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God stoops
down to our level. As the great theologian John
Calvin often said, God often "stoops down" to our level in order to accommodate our
limited human ability to grasp all that is going on spiritually. Calvin helps us not be surprised
when God, even in the scriptures, uses "baby-talk" to
help us understand Him. During a TPM session, Jesus knows when the client is fully embracing the truth of
his worthlessness, depravity, and powerlessness and alienation from God, and
therefore does not need a
lecture about how his wretchedness is due to his own sinful nature, rooted in
the Fall, and triggered by the trauma. The suffering client is already experientially embracing the effects of the Fall and original
sin. Hence, he does not need theology at that moment, he needs Jesus' healing
touch, and the effects of His finished work on the cross to pour into his soul,
which Jesus graciously provides.
Please note that my particular
theological difference with Dr. Ed Smith is on this point only, and creates no problem for me
whatsoever in administering TPM exactly as I was trained, even as I use the term
"lies" during a TPM session. Moreover, whenever I share my particular theological perspectives with my clients, it
is usually after a TPM session, and never during the TPM sessions.
My
Response To Religious
Critics of TPM
I am well aware that TPM is
controversial, and this is understandable, because TPM is new to the scene. But
most
criticism of TPM that I have read or encountered is based on ignorance or misunderstandings of TPM, and can be
often be defused by educating a genuinely inquiring person who
wants to know the truth about TPM, as to what TPM really
is and what TPM is not.
However, not
everyone approaches TPM with an open mind, willing to seriously consider the
possibility that God is working through TPM. Interestingly, the strongest
opponents of TPM are often "religious" people who seem to have a vested interest not
in learning anything new about what God is doing, but in simply attacking what does not fit with their
current understanding of things, based on a rigid, inflexible theological
system. As I read in the gospels how Jesus was attacked by the religious leaders
of His day, then I am no longer surprised by some of the attacks on TPM. Indeed,
these attacks are clearly what we should expect if TPM it is exactly what it
proclaims to be: God's light in the darkness.
At the time of this
writing, an internet search
using the word "theophostic" in your search
engine, will generate over 13,000 hits. I have not even begun to read them all, but I
have noticed, and you will too, that the vast majority of things written or
said about TPM are very positive. The few negative evaluations I have read are,
interestingly, out of balance and extremely
negative and therefore, clearly biased in their appraisals.
Moreover, the sharpest criticisms of TPM from "religious" people, and
the the tone of
their attacks clearly suggests that they perceive TPM a powerful threat to their belief system.
Interestingly, their belief systems are not on a spiritual foundation of grace
and empowerment from God through Christ,
but rather on the human foundation of good works, mental reasoning, and a lack of belief in the
Holy Spirit's work in healing in the modern age. Checking out the credentials of TPM
critics is highly informative, because you can clearly see where they are coming
from in their theology. We often find that in addition to Dr. Ed Smith, their "enemies list" includes
Dr. Billy Graham, Dr. James Dobson, Dr. Larry Crabb, and other
highly respected Christians.
Religious attacks on TPM easily fit into one of the following three
camps,
which, interestingly enough, are the same three arguments used by the Pharisees against Jesus two thousand
years ago. Therefore, when reading the attacks from TPM critics, it might be illuminating to ask "Which one of these attacks
is any different
from those hurled at Jesus Himself by the Pharisees as recorded in the gospels?" If these attacks were launched against Jesus
two thousand years ago, then why would these arguments not be
used against Him now, especially if He is indeed manifesting Himself to hurting people
in our day and age through TPM?
Here are the three primary
arguments against of TPM used by so-called "religious" people which, in my
judgment, helps provide even more evidence of God's fingerprints all over TPM:
The "TPM is Satanic" Argument
This camp of TPM critics say that TPM is Satanic. They argue that the light of Christ described by TPM
is actually
the light of Satan, in that "Satan himself transforms himself into an angel of
light" (2 Cor 11:14). Oh, yes, they will acknowledge that TPM indeed does have power and
effectiveness, but they attribute this power to Satan! This argument is
easily refuted by Jesus's test of a true and false prophet: by the fruit. What
is the fruit of TPM? Love, joy, peace, exactly what we would expect of the Holy
Spirit is in this (see Galatian 5:22). Moreover, this is the same argument the
Jewish leaders attacked Jesus with: "Are we nor right in saying that you . . .
have a demon?" (John 8:48, RSV). If the religious people attacked Jesus then
with this argument, then, if Jesus is in this, we can expect them to use this
argument against Him again.
The "Scripture-only" Argument
Some people attack
TPM along these lines: "God does not speak directly to people like TPM
describes! It can't be that simple! God speaks only through His written Word!" This argument is
easily refuted by John 10: 4, 16, and 27 in which Jesus says that His sheep hear
His voice. In TPM, Jesus is still speaking to His sheep today, in a way that is
100% fully consistent with the written Word. Moreover, their
argument is also the same one used by the Pharisees against Jesus, who responded
"You search the scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life;
and it is they that bear witness about Me" (John 5:39). So their own argument
testifies against them, in that their weak argument refutes the
scripture that they say they believe.
I want to strongly emphasize that often, in TPM, scriptural
truths
becomes strongly personalized for the client, as with Sally, in the example above,
in regards to John 10. Indeed, in TPM, scriptural truth -- often through through
experiential imagery and word-pictures -- becomes
so deeply imbedded that non-scriptural beliefs completely lose their power on
the client. In TPM, it is as though scriptural truth becomes
intertwined with the very fiber of the person's soul. Former client whom I have talked to
years after their TPM sessions
can describe very clearly what God had wrought in them through the TPM session. Moreover, after TPM,
people give all
the glory to Jesus. In TPM, the scriptures are coming alive for clients and
clients.
The Legalist's Argument
Legalists are those
who were like the Pharisees in Jesus' day, clinging to their human efforts and works, betraying that their
faith is really in human merit for salvation, not the finished work of
Jesus on the cross. Legalists attack TPM along these lines: "Our
efforts and good works must be more important than TPM describes! It can't be as
easy as simply consenting to receiving a healing experience from God!"
But
Jesus
said "This is the work of God, that you believe in Him whom He has sent" (John
6:29). TPM does not preach against good works,
as the TPM attackers claim. TPM, in actuality, provides a
vehicle for inspired obedience and good works that these critics can
neither rebuke or explain. Many of my former TPM clients are doing good works
they were not doing before their TPM sessions: loving their family members,
serving in ministry, drawing others to Christ, and more genuine in worship. I
would like to ask TPM critics, how can you argue with such fruit? As Jesus Himself said, "For which of My good works do
you stone Me?" (see John 10:32).
In sum, much of the content of
attacks on TPM is highly consistent with
the same attacks of the Pharisees and other "religious" people on Christ. These
attacks offer more support to the argument that TPM is indeed what it professes to be,
an instrument of God for the light of Christ to shine in the darkness of human hearts
and mend the brokenness
that is there (see Psalm 147:3; Isaiah 61:1; John 1:5).
TPM and
the "False Memories" Debate
TPM is also under attack by a number of people who passionately believe that it is either
impossible or highly improbable that mental health patients can experience
"repressed memories," that is, memories that do not occur except years later, after a
childhood trauma. An organization called the
False Memory Syndrome Foundation, was
started back in the early 1990s by family members who claim that they were
falsely accused of abusing their children. Although I am sure that there have
indeed been false accusations of sexual abuse by patients who lie or have some
secondary gain to their symptoms, and traumatic memories can be distorted, it is
important to know that repression of traumatic memories is a well-established
psychological phenomenon, observed and described for over a century by
psychologists and researchers. Moreover, scientific evidence in support for the existence of repressed memories is
quite substantial (for example, visit
RecoveredMemory.org). In addition, it makes a lot of sense to me that God
would, in His grace, and as part of the psychological defense system that arose
after the Fall (Genesis3 ), let us bury memories of events that we cannot
psychologically assimilate, and save them for recall when we have the
psychological support in place. Repression is a form of denial -- that is, lying
to ourselves -- that has enabled many of my patients to emotionally and
psychologically survive their childhoods and function throughout the while
carrying with them the horror of incest. We all practice denial is some form;
for example, many of us practice denial when we conveniently forget how much we
owe on our credit cards, or how much we weigh.
Many of these anti-repression people are passionate believers in a highly
questionable idea called "false memory syndrome" (FMS). Please note,
first of all, that FMS is NOT a recognized psychiatric syndrome; it is not listed
in the DSM-IV. Rather, FMS is a hypothetical construct invented by people who
claim that somehow or another, therapists can, and actually do, create artificial traumatic memories in
their offices. I, for one, do not believe that I, as a therapist, can actually
create a false memory in my office. I do believe, however, that psychologically
unhealthy people can be led to believe that any image that come into there mind
is a historical fact (remember the "spectral evidence" Salem witch trials?) and that well-meaning
therapists can contribute to misinterpretations of internal experience. So,
although I disagree with the fundamental basis of FMS -- that therapists
create false memories --I do believe that therapists must be accountable and vigilant as to what we are
doing in response to patients' reports of images of sexual abuse in their mind
by family members or others. In my practice, I do not place myself in the
position of a judge as to the precise historical accuracy of what clients
report, and use the term "experience" instead of "memory" as I help clients what
they
A word about the science of memory.
It is true that "historical truth" and "remembered truth" can differ, and that
memory can be distorted. Indeed, as the science of memory evolves,
the human mind emerges not so much as a robotic videotape recorder of factual
events, but rather as an editor or narrator of events and raw facts. Certainly
emotions, unconscious motivations, and, to use a biblical term, sin, can
influence what we remember and how we remember.
As we recall events in out lives, we continuously
re-interpret and summarize them in ways that have an impact on us now and in the
future. Therefore, it
can be greatly helpful to have information which validates experiences we
consider as possible memories, such as when a sexual abuser admits to the crime, or
when
someone comes forward as a witness who can validate the details of the
client's experience in some way.
In the absence of such supporting evidence, clients
who think that they may have been sexually abused by a family member may try to
recruit a therapist into validating them in their belief that they were abused.
This is dangerous territory, especially for inexperienced therapists who may feel compelled
support a client by conveying the belief -- whether they have it or not -- that the client was indeed abused. There
have been a number malpractice suits against psychotherapists who were
sued because it was determined that they contributed or caused a false
determination of childhood sexual abuse leading to wrongful blame of family
members as sexual offenders.
Therefore, the task of Christian counseling and psychotherapy should not be in
interpreting memories, but rather in helping our clients learn how to interpret their
internal experience, including memories, as part of the ongoing sanctification
process, which includes understanding more about themselves as they grow in
grace and the knowledge of Christ (2 Peter 3:18). Hence, I do not feel compelled
to believe, or
convey in any way, that what my patients report in their minds as memories are
historically accurate down to every detail.
However, we counselors can be very helpful by validating the reality of a patient's internal actual experience,
such as images of sexual abuse in childhood, without making any interpretations on its accuracy
whatsoever. A therapist can also be helpful by educating the patient on the the
dynamics of memory, and how memory can be colored or distorted by our emotions and
unconscious processes. In my view, it is doing the client a disservice by
interpreting a memory for them, whether it is by saying that the memory is historically
accurate or historically
inaccurate, the latter of which the false memory syndrome people seem to want
all therapists to do.
TPM and FMS.
To Dr. Ed Smith's credit, TPM training does not involve detective work in
determining what actually happened in regard objective factual truth; rather, it
focuses on helping suffering individuals experience freedom from unhealthy
beliefs that they have about themselves or God in the context of the disturbing
experiences they report. Are all those experiences actual memories, precise in
every detail? I do not know, nor do I as a therapist have to know. I am not a
police detective, but a healer. As A Christian counselor, I have helped many patients experience
love, joy, and peace in place of their depression, anxiety, and anger, without making
any interpretation whatsoever as to the historical accuracy of the experiences they report.
How Dr. Ed Smith has responded to critics.
Dr. Ed Smith's
response to attacks on TPM have been, in my opinion, exemplary, and
demonstrative of Christian character. He has never claimed infallibility and has
welcomed others to read and respond his writings, especially his updated
materials. He invites his Christian brothers and sisters to correct him if they see anything
wrong in TPM or the theology it is based upon. He has responded to his critics,
for the most part, graciously and has used their criticism as an opportunity to clarify his positions,
educate people on what
they do not yet understand, and, when appropriate, to modify the TPM procedure
and revise the TPM manual. Based upon feedback he has received from
people over the last decade, and through his own experiences with TPM, he has
clarified his position on a number of issues and has refined his theology.
As a result, the TPM manual
is updated and the TPM procedure is streamlined. Indeed, TPM is now more
effective and more efficient in application than ten years ago, and its
psychology and theology more robust. I confidently predict that TPM will become bolder and brighter
in the years ahead, as more and more people are being brought into the healing light of
the Lord Jesus Christ through this biblically sound, Spirit-led, and Christ-centered
approach.
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